Staying connected while keeping our distance

The hardest part of following the pandemic protocols for an extrovert, like me, is isolating myself away from others.

Roux and Sharon and I walked on a forest road off the Richard B. Russell today.

Roux and Sharon and I walked on a forest road off the Richard B. Russell today.

Thankfully, I have a wife and a dog who are hibernating with me, but I miss being with people, in small groups, in large groups, at the store, or the library, in church or a dinner group.

So, I’m having to find other ways to connect with those beyond the confines of my immediate family.

I called some friends from church to check on them. I’ll be doing that more often. I like talking on the phone. I remember my grandmother used to talk with her friend Bessie Brewer for an hour or two every evening. Talking on the phone comes naturally to me.

After instant messaging with my friend Ati, who we usually play dominoes in person with, I decided to see if I could find a way to play online. Yahtzee seemed a bit easier to play online, so I searched for a way to make that happen.

Yahtzee

I found a site and just played Yahtzee online with a stranger named Oma. I lost. It was interesting, but did not fulfill my desire to connect with others. There was a little button that said “Speak”, but all you could do was choose from a few predetermined responses. I might as well have been playing with a robot.

Tomorrow, I plan to see if I can set it up to play Yahtzee with my friend Ati, while we talk on the phone. That will be much better than playing online using the “speak” button. I’m also considering doing a Facetime live where I teach some basic photography skills and answer questions. Or maybe where I show people how to teach their dog to close the door.

What are other folks doing to stay connected, while keeping your distance? I’d love more ideas.



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Cindy Brown

I'm an Atlanta wedding photographer who takes soulful, quirky and honest photos ...

I'm also an adventurous traveler and all-round nerd. I love to hike with my beagle/cattle dog Roux and best friend/spouse.

I was born in Atlanta, moved around a lot--30 cities and 5 states--and then came back.

After graduating from the Art Institute of Atlanta, I took a job at asmall newspaper in south Georgia, where I photographedhospital teas, pecan farmers, and beauty queens.

I photographed a biker funeral, death penalty protests andTed Bundy while interning with the Associated Press.

While a photographer for two dailies in Florida, I photographed Ronald Reagan, a train derailment and the dedication of a screened-in porch.

An unexpected life turn took me to Vermont where I fell in love with Bernie Sanders and on to Indiana, where I edited photos for a major daily, and nerded out getting a master’s and PhD.

After teaching photojournalism at colleges and universities in Florida, Indiana and Mississippi, I returned to Atlanta to earn myfifth degree--a Master's of Divinity.

My passion for storytelling with my camera and my interest in religious diversity led my to the field of wedding photojournalism.

I have documented weddings large and small, Unitarian and Pagan, indoors and out, Christian and Muslim, in backyards and in churches. The most exotic wedding I have photographed took place in Mexico and was officiated by aMayan shaman.

When I'm not photographing weddings, portraits or corporate events, I work on personal photo projects, visit friends in amemory-care home, and volunteer at a recovery center.